{"id":2232,"date":"2025-04-03T14:23:22","date_gmt":"2025-04-03T14:23:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ffolliet.com\/?p=2232"},"modified":"2026-04-03T12:59:05","modified_gmt":"2026-04-03T12:59:05","slug":"in-actual-fact-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ffolliet.com\/staging\/in-actual-fact-2\/","title":{"rendered":"in actual fact"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>One of my father\u2019s dear friends, John used to say, \u201cin actual fact,\u201d a lot. In actual fact, he would say, in actual fact, probably every other sentence, more in actual fact. He confessed that he felt unable, in actual fact, to stop saying it. John lived a good life but died some years ago. At his funeral, a friend stood to deliver the eulogy. \u201cIn actual fact&#8230;\u201d he began. Everyone smiled, fondly remembering John.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/ffolliet.com\/staging\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Screen-Shot-2014-12-10-at-17.56.30.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-2233\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>We say filling words when we are nervous. Whether it is, &#8220;in actual fact,&#8221; &#8220;you know,&#8221; or &#8220;ummm,&#8221; filler words become a real problem in the delivery (p3) and receipt of presentations (p cubed). The audience is aware that the words themselves, in actual fact, are not integral to the story but they do distract, in actual fact, from the clarity of the presentation (p cubed). In actual fact they do this by adding to the \u201cnoise\u201d of the presentation and this distracts from the signal, in actual fact. 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